It is hard to know how to help a friend who has lost a loved one. We want to help. But how? Drawing from her experience as a young widow and from interviews of others who have shared the loss of a loved one, Lynn Kelly offers a simple but profound little book of advice. Don't Ask for the Dead Man's Golf Clubs -- so called because in fact people will ask -- is an invaluable guide to a difficult time. Paperback, 155 pages.