The reality of marriage is a far cry from the pop-culture fantasy of two independent people happily living independent lives together, because God designed the world so that your spouse would affect you spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically, and relationally. Your spouse will change your life now and in the future, and will change the lives of your children and granchildren. This is a beautiful truth when you are wedded to a man of God's own heart. But how do you know before committing yourself that he is Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong?