If you have an adult child whose life is one crisis after another and you find yourself constantly entangled in the drama, there is a way out. Author Allison Bottke writes from her own personal experience as an enabler of her only son. Using the acronym of S.A.N.I.T.Y she encourages parents to take a tough-love approach in dealing with their dysfunctional adult children and regain control of their own lives.